Christian Matrimonials

By Garrett36 Pierson36

 When love strikes, time is not viewed as any friend people in love tend to want to get married as soon as possible which is why so many romances end with a couple running off to consummate their forbidden love. Take a look at Romeo & Juliet to see how that works out, and unfortunately for many thousands of couples, rushing into marriage is an act which they learn to repent at their own leisure.

There are a number of reasons why you should apply the brakes and slow down in the race to get married.

Financial Reasons

Almost half of marriages end in divorce and if you think getting married is expensive, just take a look at what happens when marriages break down. It is not pretty and it scars people for life, but money troubles are one of the most frequently cited reasons for marital breakdown which frequently surprises people who think it is infidelity.

Starting married life in debt is simply adding more load onto what will be a hard journey as the newly married couple struggle to buy a home, start a family and raise children. On the other hand, getting married is very expensive with the typical cost of a wedding running into the $20,000 range and frequently much more. Placing the cost on credit cards or bank loans simply saddles the married family budget with a ton of debt and monthly repayments.

The engagement ring is a very costly factor in virtually all engagements and marriages. Typically, the groom-to-be is advised to spend three times his monthly salary on the engagement ring, though in fact this has less to do with tradition and more to do with De Beers’s marketing department (De Beers are the world’s largest diamond mine company).

By saving for the engagement ring, this allows for some time to pass so the initial flush of excitement is allowed to subside and the couple can make decisions based upon their real feelings and not act in the heat of the moment. There is also something to be said for buying this very important token with your own money and not using credit it demonstrates financial acumen and ability to save money, which is going to be important for most couples.

Emotional Reasons

By saving the money for the engagement ring, you are not only displaying the excellent financial qualities of being able to manage money and to save, but you are also showing your intended that you are so serious about marrying her that you are prepared to work for the important things in life, especially married life. Marriage is a partnership, but nothing is going to happen in life without both of you working hard and this applies to the material things in life which cost money, through to the quality of your relationship with each other.

By saving for the engagement ring you are also reducing the debt burden you may be carrying into married life. We’ve also touched on financial issues being cited for many divorces, but in fact the problem is deeper than that. Finances are the source of much discontent and arguments between couples, even those who have no intention of divorcing one another. You can help make your married life as happy as on your honeymoon by minimizing your debt and repayments, and one crucial way of doing this is to pay with cash not credit for items such as the engagement ring.

Finally, there is also much to be said for giving the woman of your dreams an engagement ring which you own unconditionally. Credit is too easy to get, but by working, saving and paying with cash for the engagement ring of your dreams, you are sending a very powerful message to your intended you really love her.

Lawrence Reaves is an expert at many things and knows patience is a virtue. He suggests waiting until you can afford the engagement ring of your dreams. Don’t believe him Just Ask Jill Renee at her jewelry blog.

How To Stop Your Boyfriend from Breaking Up With You

By Aileen Aragon

 A relationship break up is probably on the horizon, if your boyfriend stops holding your hand for no apparent reason. Or he stops putting an arm over your shoulder at the movies or in public when he always did it before.

Any sudden changes like not touching you much outside the bedroom when your boyfriend was always very affectionate before could signal problems.

A person might have been thinking of something else and been surprised or startled by the touch. He or she might think that your touch signals that its time to have sex, if youre not very affectionate except when you want to be intimate.

And maybe your guy isnt in the mood for sex now and chose to show you that by moving away from your touch. That doesnt mean youre headed for a love break up.

He might simply not feel good. Every change in a persons behavior doesnt signal an impending love break up or even anything wrong with the relationship. You have to watch them closely for a while to determine if some behavior is an occasional thing, something brought on only during certain times, or if its a permanent part of the persons make up.

Catching your boyfriend when he lies, even what seem like small and harmless ones, could be a sign of problems, too. After all, if a lie is small and harmless, why tell it in the first place?

Where theres one tiny lie, larger and more damaging lies can grow. Dont become convinced its a love break up right away though. People lie about many things that arent bad, like surprise parties and reunions. Your partner might be trying to keep a harmless and fun secret like that, instead of scheming about a love break up.

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Are You Trying To Keep Your Relationship Alive

By Aileen Aragon

 The great thing about seeking out relationship advice online is there are people and answers available 24 hours a day and 7 days a week. You may have something that has just happened thatmay cause you to break up.

Instead of just laying in bed staring at the ceiling you can be getting online and asking for advice so that you can avoid breaking up. There are experts at giving relationship advice that have written countless articles pertinent to your situation. You might even be able to find counselors online who are willing to help you out.

If there are questions that you are too embarrassed to ask of people you know, you will find the Internet to be a great place to ask questions while retaining a level of anonymity. The great thing about it is you can ask for advice in secret. No one has to know what you are thinking about.

If you are single and wanting to find that special someone, you will be able to find great dating advice online. You may also be able to find that special someone on the internet as well. Many have found the love of their lives while trying to find answers to their questions online.

Go through reputable services if your goal is to find someone. Go with the ones that have a great reputation of not only matching people up but of screening those interested in relationships.

You can find great advice online but it should only be a part of your search for answers. Question that advice you get and ask others what they think about it.

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